Wild at Heart

Standing poised,  ready for flight

He flings his head from left to right

From right to left and back again

Then rears and lifts his mighty chin.

His eyes are  flames. His nostrils flare,

While two stone hooves dance on air.

Foaming, rippling muscles rage

Beneath the shiny chestnut glaze

Of glistening coat and winged mane,

Forever wild in his domain.

He’s known the whip and evil chain.

He’s carried men, both strong and lame.

He’s fought man’s battle, tamed man’s field,

And known the power man can wield.

And though we’ve tried from the very start,

We’ve still never tamed the horse’s heart.

And I pray we never do.

August Rush

Oh yea! My students are coming home! I have been missing all my student friends who’ve been gone on vacation (mostly to places I’ve never been, but have longed to go for years). But now that August is nearly here, they are trickling back in from far-away states and countries, looking tanned and relaxed.  I am putting you all on notice, by the way: I require at least one photo from your trip so that I can live vicariously through you — either that, or a ticket to wherever you went so I can experience it for myself — before I give you a lesson! Okay, I won’t hold you to that, but c’mon, really, would one little picture be too much to ask? And don’t think because you didn’t go somewhere far off and exotic this doesn’t apply to you. I’ve been in HOUSTON for Pete’s sake, ALL SUMMER! I guarantee, wherever you went, I would have liked it.

Seriously though, welcome back folks. I have missed you all and I’m so looking forward to working with each of you again. Foxfire is full of people whom I consider my extended family (we might be a bit of a dysfunctional family, but at least we’re interesting!) and my summers usually feel a little lonely without you guys. This year is no exception.

So, here’s to another school year full of horseback riding, shows, school recitals, soccer practices, orchestra practices and concerts (all of which inevitably interfere with the horseback riding lessons and shows), and sorry to remind you kids, homework (which interferes which pretty much everything fun!) But hey, as long as you fit the horseback riding in, it’s all good… right? That’s my perspective at least!

Looking forward to seeing you all!

Jenn

For Harley

It’s been a sad week around here. Monday I attended the funeral of my young cousin, Harley Johannes Ruppert, who passed away after a year and a half long battle with Neuroblastoma, a cancer that affects the very young. Little Harley would have been three years old this August. He was a beautiful, life-loving child, who climbed around his hospital room like it was a playground, collected hats and stuffed animals, and had a kiss for just about everyone (although I heard he would sometimes turn his back on the nurses when they came in to check on him),  and he loved to dance and sing.

I didn’t get a chance to know Harley very well. We always think we have time to get to know the children in our lives… after all, they have their whole life ahead of them, right? Well, I’ll tell you, I really missed out. I wish now that I had visited him when he was still able to play and be rambunctious as only a little boy can be. I wish I had had him over to the barn to ride the horses (He loved animals so much!) Or just that I had been around a little more.

But I learned a few things from Harley anyway. Cherish everything in life that makes you happy, collect things and people  that you love, treat the whole world like a playground, and give the people you cherish big kisses whenever you can.

If there are people in your life you haven’t seen in a while, and you think there’s always more time, think again. Make time now. Because after all, Now is all we have for sure. So, if you don’t mind, in honor of Harley, take a minute today to make someone smile (yourself or someone you care about); give someone a call you haven’t talked to lately, but have been meaning to; laugh a little more. And know that there are people out there who care about you too, even if you haven’t heard from them in a while. There’s a lot of love in this world, if we just open our eyes and look around.

Jenn

Carson’s Awesome Video!

Sometimes, young people amaze me. Not just when they do something crazy, like a heart-stopping, breath-freezing double back-flip off a piece of playground equipment (that’s the kind of things moms endure all the time); but also when they do something really cool, really deep, something thought provoking and moving. That’s what Carson accomplished with this video I want to share with you. Here you will see her riding several different horses over a two or three year span in her riding life. But what you’ll read and experience has depth and soul and a lot of love. Enjoy, and make sure you send her your thoughts. Also, send me your videos, pictures, and commentary on “life with horses” so I can share them with our Foxfire friends!

Jenn

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xB-aGi7xhic


Guess what? It’s STILL hot!

Just thought I’d let you guys know, it is still hot out here. (Maybe we should start an air-conditioner drive.. everyone drop off an A/C and we’ll give you a free lesson. An A/C for each stall…ahhh)  Anyway, the horses are having a difficult time with this heat, and the lack of rain isn’t helping. Several of them have been needing extra hosing and cool-off time after coming in from the pasture. So, it’s possible we’ll reduce turn-out time temporarily, just to give them some relief. Honestly, the horses are starting to check their watches while their in the pasture, “Can we come in yet? Is it time?” and pacing impatiently near the gate until we let them in.

Also, there may be a little virus going around the barn — a summer cold. A few horses have had the sniffles. So far, nothing serious, but we’ll be keeping an eye on them. If you notice your horse has a runny nose or eyes, let us know and we’ll whip up some chicken soup for them. Okay, we won’t really. We make terrible chicken soup and the horses won’t eat it anyway, but we’ll take care of them. Do use common sense if your horse (or any horse) looks sickly, and wash your hands before petting another horse or giving treats, etc…

Also, if your horse does NOT have powdered electrolytes or a salt/mineral block, now is definitely the time to get one. If you don’t have time to go get one, you can call Arcola Feed at 281-431-1014, and ask them to deliver one to Foxfire on Wednesday. (And see if they can send an A/C while you’re at it!)

Keep cool, folks!

Jenn

The SnowfoX Files – The Adventure Begins

What you are about to read is a true tale. (Or should I say, tail…) I know, most of you will not believe it, but I can’t help that. I have seen these things with my own eyes. I know they are real. So, skeptic or not, sit back and open your eyes, open your mind, above all, enjoy the ride.

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The Snowfox Files - Adventure One:

Many of you are familiar with Snowfox. He’s an adorable white Welsh pony, about 12.5 hands high and full of spit and vinegar, as my grandma used to say. He came from an old pony ride place, Kiddie Wonderland, where he was miserable. There, the ponies were kept tacked up all day and expected to walk around a boring little track with small children bouncing and jiggling on their backs. In other words, it was “Snowfox Hell”.

What you may not know is this: Snowfox was so incredibly bored with his work, that he began to find creative ways to occupy his mind while he was carting kids around. He daydreamed. He meditated. He practiced increasing his memory. He learned English, Spanish, French, and a little Mandarin. He tried advancing his math skills, but lost interest when he got to Calculus. So he focused on language. He listened to the families that came to ride him and his stable mates. He listened to the staff and their helpers. Although he learned quickly, he also concluded that humans are pretty boring. They never talked about anything of much interest to an intelligent equine, so Snowfox began to learn other languages.

He learned the language of the stable flies that swarmed around him constantly. He spoke regularly with the birds and picked up at least twelve avian dialects (He eventually stopped talking to birds altogether after a few bad experiences with pigeons, but I digress).  As often happens with intellectual types, Snowfox had great communication skills, but very few friends. Bottom line, he was lonely. So he began to look for more “non-traditional” friends. And he soon found them — or perhaps they found him. And this is where it gets weird…  Snowfox began to see and hear creatures that most of us think only exist in fairy tales. Fairies, gnomes, leprechauns, even a few unicorns (According to Snowfox, the unicorns were a little conceited.) But all in all, Snowfox was a much happier pony, now that he had a larger circle of friends.

Often, when he was all alone at night, trying to sleep while his stable-mates snored and mumbled in their sleep, Snowfox would hear the familair tinkle of fairy wings on the night air. One of his favorite fairy friends, Sabrina, would come to visit him, and entertain him with stories from the magical land she inhabited.

Snowfox’s nights soon became filled with wonder and awe, as he learned of all the magical beasts that existed in Sabrina’s world. He longed to meet some of Sabrina’s friends, and see the beautiful fields of rainbow-colored grass where she lived. And though he looked forward more and more to these magical evenings, he dreaded his day job more with each sunrise.

And then, Sabrina sent him an invitation. He was bent over his hay, nibbling away while chatting quietly with Harvey (a stable fly), when he got it.  A pretty brown sparrow flew right past his stall and discreetly dropped a piece of straw under his nose. On the golden straw, a magical message glowed: “Meet me at midnight, under the full moon, by the chinese tallow tree at the back gate. Signed, Sabrina. P.S. Eat this after reading!”

Snowfox blinked his eyes and read the message again. Then he dutifully swallowed the evidence, and did his best to pay attention to his work the rest of the day. When night fell and the last groom left the stable, Snowfox unlatched his stall door and crept out to the back gate. He quivered with excitment as he waited for Sabrina, but as the moon grew rounder and brighter in the night sky, he began to doze. He would wake with a start at every unusual sound, hoping to see the glitter of fairy wings in the night. And finally, he heard them. The tinkling of a million tiny bells that seemed to come from everywhere around him, and from his head at the same time. “Sabrina?” he whispered to the darkness. “Is that you?” Only the bells answered for a time. And then, “Snowfox, come up here, you silly pony!”Snowfox looked up at the fat face of the moon, but saw nothing. “In the tree” came the tiny voice of his friend. “But how will I get up there?!” He looked longingly at the uppermost branches of his favorite shade tree. A chorus of bells answered him, and he swore they sounded like laughter.

“Like this, silly!”came the giggling reply. And that’s when Snowfox’s feet left the ground. All four of his feet. At once. “I’m…I’m… flying!” he whinnied. “This isn’t happening! I’m dreaming. I must be dreaming!”

Sabrina floated in middair, holding her belly and rolling around with laughter. With her right hand, she reached over and pinched him, hard.  “Ow!” he yelled, “What was that for?!”

“Well, if you were dreaming, would it hurt if I pinched you?” The fairy looked at him with her best “I’m perfectly innocent” face. “Come on, slowpoke. If we’re going to my place, we’ve got to hurry. We only have until sunrise, and the traffic is always terrible during a full moon!”

With that, Snowfox began his first of many amazing  journeys to the land of fairies and unicorns, gnomes and leprechauns,  trolls and witches. And his circle of friends grew. And unfortunately, so did his list of enemies. For, as Snowfox soon learned, the magical lands of fairy tales are not without problems. There would be battles between witches and fairies, many of which would affect Snowfox’s world as well as the home of his dear friend Sabrina. And Snowfox would soon become a sort of secret agent, working to keep both worlds safe from the wickedness that could destroy them.

Come back soon, and join Snowfox on his first visit to Sabrina’s world. See how it all began…

Foxfire (Fat) Farm

Well folks, it’s been a while since I blogged. ( I know because I’ve been getting complaints.)  Maybe it’s because of the insane Houston heat that my brain can’t seem to find anything interesting to write about. (Could my mental wiring actually melt in this heat? Scary thought.) So to be honest, I’ve been wandering around, wondering what on earth is exciting and interesting around a barn? I mean, there’s a lot of routine.. feeding, turning out horses, feeding, cleaning stalls, cleaning horses, feeding, showering the grimy, gritty, sandy film off yourself afterward, oh and of course, feeding.. did I mention that?

Of course, to the average (non-horsey) person this is all pretty cool stuff (It really is, I swear). I hear this from people who don’t actually own or ride horses. They say things like, “Oh, how romantic! Horses! They’re so beautiful!” And they’re right of course. They are romantic. And beautiful. Especially when you’re looking at a photo of one on the cover of some glossy breed magazine. (Which has been cropped to cut out the entire staff of sweaty, filth-covered grooms, trainers, etc.. that managed to get the horse cleaned up enough to be photo-ready). So certainly, the average non-horsey horse lover sees the beauty of these animals we love so much, and they find it “charming” to learn about all the horse care that people get so engrossed in. But we horse folk don’t really need or especially want, to hear about how the afternoon feed went, or which paddock board got broken today. And that’s a lot of what we talk about around the barn — the minutia, the repairs, how much this horse or that is drinking. (high drama it’s not, but it’s a good life).

So what do I write about that’s both pertinent to barn folks and slightly more interesting than what really goes on around a barn day-to-day?

Hmm.. horse people themselves are pretty interesting. I mean, what kind of human willingly goes around cleaning up after a thousand pound animal (often to their own detriment) in 100 degree heat, while paying for the privilege? SO today I’ll feature a story (a plea, really) about one of our own lovely horsey friends (We’ll call her M) who needs a little help.

M. is one of those horse-girls-from-birth who has been a barn bum throughout her adolescence. She’s fun to talk to, has loads of riding experience, and is really, really pretty. (There is no requirement at a barn to be “average-looking” but it certainly helps us not-quite-supermodel-type-people relate to you more). The problem with M. is that, because she never stops working around the barn, and it’s so incredibly hot right now, she has lost an enormous amount of weight. (Let’s clarify. We’re talking about 10 pounds, which on her is frightening. On me, not even my blue jeans would notice.) But this can be devastating - both physically and socially - for someone as naturally athletic (and tiny) as M. already is.

So we have devised a plan. (I’m using the term “we” loosely here). We are asking each boarder, each student, each leaser, to bring out something fattening for M. You can be discreet. Leave it in the barn office if you want. (Make sure you label it: For M. Only. Otherwise I might misunderstand and assume you’ve left it for me. I don’t need it). I’m talking cheesecake, people. Oreos. Donuts. Large, fattening cream pies. Forget health food. This girl needs good old-fashioned FAT. ( I swear, this is for her own good. It has nothing to do with the fact that I feel like a beluga whale when I stand next to her.)

M. told me I could write this. I think the fact that girls her age will no longer socialize with her is starting to affect her. We grown-up(and grown OUT) women tried to let her know they were probably jealous. “Really?” she exclaimed, “I never thought of that!” Of course you didn’t, M. You’re not that kind of girl. You’re a horsey-girl, more interested in Arabians than the dating scene. We get that. But those non-horsey folks who think barn life is all glamor and romance don’t understand. They probably think you’re going to steal their man and ride off into the sunset with him. (What they don’t realize is that when a horsey-woman is eying a man’s large biceps, she’s really thinking, I wonder how many bales of hay he could load up for me?) But I digress. M. would love to have more friends, even non-horsey ones. But that’s tough when you’re smart, pretty, tough, friendly AND skinny! We need to help her folks. She’s one of us,even if she is thin and pretty.

Talk to your grandmas. They know about these things. They have secret super-fattening recipes hidden in dusty card file boxes under the sink. Tell them about M.’s plight. You will put smiles on their faces, letting them know that their skills in the kitchen are still wanted and needed in this modern, low-fat, low-cal, high-fiber age.  And M. will make friends. And I will feel thinner when I’m standing next to her. And so will you.

Jenn

God Bless Air Conditioning

Some of you may know that I have been living without air conditioning for several years now. (And if you didn’t know before, you probably found out when the temperature hit 100 degrees. I thank you for your patience. I know my crying must have been annoying.)

But I am SO happy to announce I have two bouncing baby air conditioners!!! Okay, they don’t bounce, and I can’t call them babies, but I’m as proud as a new mom! I can’t tell you how nice it is to walk into a house that is cooler than the great outdoors! I may actually do a little cleaning in there, now that I can take more than a few steps without needing a break and a glass of iced tea. I’m no Martha Stewart, but I have really let things slide this last month. I realized the severity of the problem when Jessica asked me which laundry basket her favorite shirt was in. She didn’t even think to check her dresser. I guess she knew better. I haven’t folded laundry in weeks!

Also, even though my electric bill will be higher (I’m not even going to think about it right now), I’m hoping to counteract that by eating out less often. It’s amazing how much money I’ve been willing to spend recently to dine in a nice air conditioned restaurant. (Menu? Who cares?! Bring me anything.. I plan on being here for a long time!)

Sure, I tried the survivalist bit for a while, living close to nature, staying acclimated to the realities of Houston’s seasons.  And I have to say, it had its perks. With a house that stayed between 85-95 degrees in humid Houston, my skin was never dry, my hair never poofy, and on a really hot day I could make home made bread on my windowsill (okay I’m exaggerating, but it did rise in half the normal time).  But I think I’m ready to deal with dry skin and having to wait longer for bread to rise (I don’t bake that often anyway), in exchange for being able to put my blue jeans on without spraining anything (ever try to put jeans on in a sauna?), read a good book without needing windshield wipers for my glasses, and best of all, being able to eat a bowl of ice cream before it melts.

Keep it cool,

Jenn

Horse Wisdom- Letting Go

Sometimes I envy animals’ ability to let go of the past. As a human myself (a somewhat disputed fact, especially among those who know me best) I find letting go to be a particularly painful process. When I fall in love – whether with a cute furry animal, a big beautiful horse, a scrumptious new ice cream flavor or even a “brilliant” idea – I fall so far down I need an oxygen tank to breathe.

Critters just don’t seem to hang on as hard or as long to those things (maybe without opposable thumbs hanging on is  just trickier). I’ve seen horses prove this. When their owner shows up at the barn, they whinny and nicker in their excitement, toss their heads  and crane their necks to see their person. They bask in the attention their human provides and are clearly loving every minute of it. As many owners know, horses even get jealous of each other when their owner is around. They will pin their ears back and even nip at their equine neighbors when “mom” is nearby.

When the owner leaves, though, the horse seems to let it go quickly. They might call or nicker once or twice, but that’s it. Then, it’s back to business as usual -snuffling through the hay, double-checking the feed bin to see if it magically filled up while they were away, that sort of thing. What they don’t do is stand at the door, looking longingly down the empty aisle for any signs of their human. (I guarantee, if horses had telephones they would never sit by waiting for you to call.)

Which isn’t to say they love us any less than we love them. I think their love may be more pure. It’s certainly less clingy, less demanding (although that’s hard to see when they’re doing the horsey version of patting you down looking for treats), and more spontaneous. They seem to live for right now, and let tomorrow (or 5 minutes from now) take care of itself. And yesterday? Forget it. Over with. They simply love us with all their heart when they can, and take care of themselves with all their abilities when they can’t.

There is wisdom there. If we watch these animals we love so much, maybe we can learn a few things about life, and even love. Maybe we can relax our grip a little bit, take care of our own wants a little more, and let tomorrow take care of itself.

My son is in Arkansas right now and I miss him. But what am I going to do? I’m sure he’s having fun, and if he’s not, how is my worry going to make him happier?  I think I’ll just go check my feed bin, ahem, I mean,  the fridge. Maybe it’s magically refilled itself.

Jenn

Wanted: Professional Rain Dancer

Full Service Horse Boarding Facility seeks Rain Dancer with experience and references. Must be willing to work in 100+ degree weather, and be tolerant of dogs, cats, goats, chickens and an array of small, sweaty children underfoot. (Well, not directly underfoot. Do try to dance around them if at all possible, especially the dogs. We really like them.) Also, any experience in temperature reduction dances would be greatly appreciated and put to good use.

Payment commiserate with performance. Your choice of beverage, plus as many free horseback riding lessons as you can manage after all that dancing. Plus, we’ll let you play with the dogs and jump in the pool.

Position available immediately. Yesterday if possible, tomorrow if absolutely necessary.

No need to call. Just show up. Please. Really. I mean it. Anytime.

~Management